How is your Ihsaan?
By: Taalea Seeking Ihsaan
Asalaamu alaikum wr wb, brothers and sisters. I hope this message reaches you all, in the highest health/eemaan, insha’allah. Please do read it, very important! may we benefit from it insha’allah.
Ihsaan means striving to reach the best standards of performance in any circumstances or situations. It
represents excellence, graciousness and benevolence. While ‘Adl (fairness and justice) requires satisfactory performance of one’s obligations to others and fulfilling the rights of others on oneself, Ihsaan suggests doing more than that which a person isobligated to do and giving more to others than what they are entitled to. Thus, while ‘Adl ensures peace and security of human society, Ihsaan makes it loving and caring and adds beauty to it. It is the single most distinguishing feature that raises a human
society above any other creations of Allaah SWT and makes Allaah proud of humanity. That is why Allaah SWT has mentioned the following in five different verses of the Holy Qur-aan: “Allaah loves those who practice Ihsaan.” Al-Baqarah 2:195; Aali Imraan 3:134, 148; Al-Maaidah 5:13, 93.
Like ‘Adl, Ihsaan is a comprehensive concept that covers all human affairs whether it is about one’s
relationship with Allaah, interactions with people or fulfilling social obligations. When it is applied to
one’s relationship with Allaah, it represents excellence in servitude to Allaah so that a person
performs his servitude to Allaah as if Allaah is right in front of him keenly observing his performance.
Naturally, when we perform in this world with a consciousness that we are being observed by Allaah
SWT, our performance is going to be the most sincere and the most excellent just as people perform better when they are being watched by those in whose good books they want to be in e.g. a supervisor or best friend.
When The Messenger of Allaah was asked what is Ihsaan, he responded: “You fear Allaah as if you are seeing Him, because if you cannot see Him, He is watching you.” Reported by Aboo Hurairah in Bukhaari and Muslim
When it is about people, it represents benevolence towards people and graciousness in dealings. The most important is this respect is Ihsaan towards one’s parents.
“We have enjoined on man to behave with his parents with Ihsaan.” Al-Ahqaaf 46:15
While dealing with other people, the most important aspects of Ihsaan are giving, patience and
forgiveness: “Those who spend (in the way of Allaah) in prosperity and in adversity, who repress their anger and who forgive people; and Allaah loves Muhsineen (those who practice Ihsaan).” Aali Imraan 3:134
“So, forgive them and overlook (their offensive behaviour), verily, Allaah loves Muhsineen.” Al-Maaidah 5:13
“Indeed, who maintains Taqwa and remains patient and steadfast, Allaah does not let those who practice Ihsaan lose their reward.” Yousuf 12:90
It applies to what we say as well: “And say to my slaves that they should utter only
what is the best.” Banee Israaeel 17:53
Once the Messenger of Allaah asked his companions: “Should I guide you to the qualities, because of
which, Allaah raises people’s ranks?” On affirmative response, he said, “Be patient (forbearing) with him
who treats you ignorantly; forgive him who is unfair to you; give him who deprives you; and, fulfill social
obligations to the relative who is delinquent in doing his part.” Reported from ‘Ubaadah Ibn Saamit in
Targheeb n Tarheeb With reference to At-Tabaraani
The same message was conveyed, among other things, in the following Hadeeth:
The Messenger of Allaah said, “My Lord has commanded me nine qualities:
1. Fearing Allaah both secretly and openly;
2. Saying only the words of justice both when angry
and when happy;
3. Maintaining moderation both during poverty and
4. Making up (social obligations and relationships)
with a relative who shirks his obligation to me or
breaks away from me;
5. Giving even to the person who deprives me;
6. Forgiving him who is unjust to me;
7. Reflecting when I am quiet; remembering Allaah when
I speak; and, learning lessons from what I see,
8. Enjoining good; and,
9. Forbidding evil.”
Aboo Hurairah in Mishkaatul Masaabeeh
Normally, responding to negative behaviour in the best manner and practising Ihsaan consistently as mentioned in the verses and Ahaadeeth given above, results in winning the hearts of those who are treated with Ihsaan. So much so that it has the potential of converting enemies into loving friends, as stated in the following verse:
“Good and evil are not equal. Respond in a way that is the best. Then, he between whom and you was enmity will become as if he was a close friend.” Fussilat 41:34
Sometimes, however, a person practising Ihsaan may not individually witness the benefits of his best
practices. In such situations, a sincere believer may feel discouraged, used, or broken hearted. Allaah SWT assures them that: “Verily, Allaah does not let the Muhsineen (who practice Ihsaan) lose their reward.” At-Towbah 9:120, Hood 11:115, Yousuf 12:56, 12:90.
“We do not let the reward of one who performs in the most excellent manner be lost.” Al-Kahf 18:30
He also assured: “Allaah is with those who have Taqwa and practice Ihsaan.” An-Nahl 16:128
“Allaah’s Mercy is near those who practice Ihsaan.” Al-A’raaf 7:56
“Yes indeed, who turns his face submissively toward Allaah and he practices excellence (Ihsaan), his reward is with his Lord.” Al-Baqarah 2:112
And the rewards Allaah has promised to those who practice Ihsaan are also the best. For example:
“Is the reward for excellence other than excellent.” Ar-Rahmaan 55:60
“To reward those who do their best with what is the best.” An-Najm 53:31
“For those who perform excellently is the best (reward) and even more.” Yoonus 10:26
Hence, Allaah expects us to perform in the best possible way that we can: “Who can be better in deen than him who turns to Allaah in submission and practices Ihsaan.” An-Nisaa 4:125
“And Practice Ihsaan, Allaah loves those who practice Ihsaan.” Al-Baqarah 2:195
Wa aakhiru da’waanaa anilhamdu lillaahi